Two part question:
1) if a team member for a random team game (as in a hodgepodge team) bails do you both lose the same amount of ladder points? Personally I think that those who are booted or surrender from games should lose more points or we should develop a might/power ranking to take that into account.
2)What was decided would happen in Beta4 when someone is booted or quits a game. I am in a game and it appears after someone quit all the castles went empty. Either that or he emptied his castles and then quit....